i’M tRACEY bREEDEN
Speaker, advisor, bestselling author, and wisdom keeper.
My nickname is Tornado—because I create safe spaces for transformation and unleash the superheroes within.
you are the superhero you’ve been waiting for.
I believe purpose often reveals itself in difficulty, uncertainty, and the things that break our hearts. Where is your heart pulling you to act? I help you follow that current—to activate your personal power and awaken the inner superhero ready to rise.
From intimate ceremonial circles to organizations across every sector, I share actionable strategies that protect what matters most while igniting transformation from within. Whether I’m delivering keynotes on digital and rideshare safety, consulting with organizations on comprehensive safety frameworks, or guiding individuals through sacred ritual and ancestral practices, the foundation remains constant: building resilience, clarity, and authentic power in an increasingly complex world.
I stand in a place of unwavering hope, committed to building collective momentum. In this sacred space—where Indigenous teachings meet digital wisdom, where tradition meets innovation—we remember that healing is not only personal, it is also communal. This is the ground where our reimagined selves and a better world emerge. This is where we rise, protecting and empowering each other, co-creating a world that reflects the dignity, equity, and possibility we all deserve.
From Heartbreak to High-Stakes Safety: My Superhero Journey.
I grew up in rural Oklahoma, in a loving home shaped by a culture that often told me who I should be—and that who I was wasn’t enough. Like so many others, I internalized those messages. But it was in the breaking of my heart that I found my purpose and my power.
From that place, I rose—with hope, courage, and a fierce commitment to my values. I chose disruption over silence, and freedom over fear. This awakening took me on a transformative journey from small-town America working on my dad’s used car lot to law enforcement to heading women’s safety at Uber and digital safety as VP of Safety at Match Group.
As a queer woman, leader, and wisdom keeper, I bridge the ancient wisdom of my Cherokee and Choctaw ancestry with proven expertise in protecting millions of users across rideshare and digital platforms—because true safety and empowerment require both technological innovation and spiritual grounding.
Today, I still choose disruption and freedom—every single day. I create safe, sacred spaces for myself and for others, walking beside those who are seeking to rise, expand, and remember their power along with the power of our ancestors. Because together, we are not only capable of creating a better version of ourselves—we are capable of building a better world.
books
ignite your personal power for a better self and a better world.
How do you take what is breaking your heart and turn that into action, achieving impactful and sustainable change? Match-Striking for Beginners: Activating Individual and Collective Power for a More Just World is your playbook to ignite power from the margin, inviting you to discover the pathway to a better self and a more just world by recognizing your personal power and unleashing the superhero within you.
In my best-selling book, your roadmap for individual and collective change, I draw on my own unique perspective and lived experience and share actionable steps I used to amplify my own personal power to create organizational and societal change.
#1 Amazon Bestseller in the categories of Workplace Behavior and Discrimination & Racism Studies
2025 British Business Book Awards finalist in the international category
I Don’t Just Inspire, I Activate!
Keynotes & Speaking
I bring the rare perspective of someone who has investigated the crimes that tech now works to prevent at global scale. As a former detective and Medal of Valor recipient who went on to lead trust & safety at Match Group and Uber, I deliver transformational keynotes. By weaving ancestral wisdom with frontline experience and executive leadership, I help audiences reimagine what’s possible when indigenous practices of community care meet cutting-edge innovation. I’ve lived the path I share—navigating loss, identity, and reinvention from frontline public servant to leading global safety at Silicon Valley’s biggest platforms. Through it all, I discovered how to activate inner strength, ground myself in hope through my ancestral practices, and transform adversity into fuel. Whether addressing Fortune 500 companies on building ethical AI and preventing tech-facilitated abuse, teaching digital safety to vulnerable groups, or empowering people to thrive through uncertainty and change, I deliver practical frameworks backed by proven results—like reducing platform abuse by 10%+, building safety programs across 700+ global markets, and creating federal legislation that protects lives.
Ready To Build Safer Digital Spaces?
Advising organizations
I work with companies, governments, legal practices, and nonprofits who are committed to making digital spaces safer and advancing accountability. Whether you’re building safety products, navigating complex regulatory environments, addressing platform safety challenges, or advocating for survivors, I bring a perspective no other consultant can offer: I’ve built safety programs at Fortune 500 companies (Uber, Match Group), investigated the crimes those programs work to prevent (14 years law enforcement), and advised governments on legislation that became law (UK, EU, US). My clients benefit from someone who understands technology, law enforcement, policy, and survivor advocacy at the highest levels.
Ready To Rise Through Transition and Uncertainty?
Rise Experiences
In the sacred desert landscapes and transformative retreat spaces, I create ceremonial experiences in nature that awaken deep interconnectedness and offer soulful practices for navigating life’s uncertainties. These experiences blend ceremonial practices rooted in my Cherokee and Choctaw traditions with contemporary tools for healing and growth. Whether through intimate one-on-one desert ceremonies or immersive group retreats, I guide you through powerful rituals – from grief, rage and release ceremonies to celebrations of gratitude, power and hope – and can also customize ceremonies for your unique journey. You are welcome exactly as you are, and your beloved pets are welcome too. Together, we create a sacred space where you can release what no longer serves, restore, and rise with renewed strength and hope. This is where you learn to not just survive but thrive through difficulty, uncertainty, and the daily struggles of life, discovering the profound healing that comes from reconnecting with yourself, others, and the natural world.
From Crime Scenes to Corporate Boardrooms: A Safety Leader’s Journey
I’ve lived my life dedicated to serving and empowering people—from investigating the crimes that tech now works to prevent, to protecting millions of users at global scale, to guiding individuals through sacred ceremonies of transformation.
My journey from small-town Oklahoma to Silicon Valley leadership wasn’t just a career path—it was a calling to create safety and activate power wherever it’s needed most. As a Medal of Valor recipient who served 14 years in law enforcement specializing in sexual assault and domestic violence, I brought that frontline understanding of tech-facilitated abuse to the tech industry as Uber’s first Head of Women’s Safety and Gender-Based Violence. There, I conceived and built the company’s first global team dedicated to protecting women and vulnerable populations, pioneering digital and in real life safety initiatives across 6 continents and 700+ markets.
At Match Group—home to Tinder, Hinge, and OkCupid—I served as Vice President, Head of Safety and Social Advocacy, establishing the company’s first centralized Trust & Safety program focused on preventing tech-facilitated abuse and advancing digital safety. Leading a global team of experts across 15+ brands, I drove strategies that reduced platform abuse by 10%+ while serving millions of users seeking connection.
But my work extends beyond corporate boardrooms. Rooted in my Cherokee and Choctaw ancestry, I bridge ancient wisdom with cutting-edge expertise, creating comprehensive approaches to safety, healing, and empowerment. Whether I’m delivering keynotes on digital safety, advising organizations on building protective cultures, or holding sacred space for individuals to release, restore, and rise, the foundation remains the same: creating safe spaces where people are empowered with the knowledge and practices they need to thrive.
Today, as founder and owner of Disrupt the Landing, LLC, I offer transformational speaking, strategic consulting, and sacred ceremonial experiences for individuals, organizations, and communities ready to awaken their inner superhero and create lasting change. Because when we create safety for one, prioritizing the most vulnerable, we create safety for all.
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Awards & Accolades
My mission-driven work in safety, social advocacy, and leadership has been recognized by numerous organizations and outlets, including Fast Company, where I was named to the Top 50 Queer List of queer women and nonbinary individuals transforming business; Mashable, where my Uber team’s work was recognized as 1 of “14 Innovations that helped make the world a better place in 2018”; and in policing, with the Chief’s Award for Excellence along with the highest public safety honor one can receive, the Medal of Valor.


